Angela, you are 100%. I know I've fallen into this role more than I'd like to admit, and I've seen others do it as well.

Actually, you were so spot on that the neurotic part of me spent about a second and a half fearing that you were a friend of mine under a pseudonym commenting on my current relationship. 🤦‍♀️

Great article!

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