I'm very glad that you will never let them bury you or take your inherent freedom to be yourself.
But I'm so sorry Nia that you've dealt with all of that from the people who are supposed to support you. I will never understand families and "friends" who behave that way. I can't imagine how painful and unfair that must feel.
Thank goodness that although we don't get to pick the families we are born into, we do get to choose the families with whom we spend the rest of our lives.