Understanding this was what finally got my partner into therapy. He couldn't do it for himself, but he could do it for me. I can identify. I may not quite be a Never-Asker, but I am a lifelong put-everyone-else's-needs-above-your-own. I'm working on it; it's a process...

Thank you for a beautiful essay.

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